Why don’t we get used to death?

Whenever a child is born,we know that they won’t live forever. Whether one gets to grow to adulthood or to be a grandparent, we know that one day they will depart from this world.

The truth remains that we all going to die but we just don’t get used to death because of the life changes after death or the gap it creates in our hearts. 

To all those who had lost their loved ones; know that pain heals you need to grief and allow yourself to feel the pain. Lions do cry,as strong as they are. You too are allowed to cry and smile at the same time while you remember and treasure the memories shared.

Tears will dry,your pain will be healed. We need to know that there’s a time to be born and a time to die. As difficult as it is,but our loved ones would always be a part of us,even in death. 

It is important to tell those you love that you love them before its too late. Make time to spend with family and friends. 

Let go of anything weighing you down, learn to love and laugh more. Pain doesn’t mean you weak,it means you acknowledge your emotions and expressing them by crying. 

At times crying makes you feel better; don’t bottle up your emotions,learn to show your true feelings. Death emotionally never be prepared for psychologically even when we prepare for it financially. 

No death is better, whether they were a day old or 100 years old, death pains. At times it forces change in family set ups. 

We never the same after the death of a loved one. Strength to all who lost their loved ones, may they find comfort and most importantly courage to continue living. 

Yours truly

Molemole Seima 

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